What Goes Around Comes Around.
Posted on Mar 9, 2009by Lori Dicker
Yes, that happens to be KARMA’s tagline. But it also defines Word of Mouth — and much like KARMA, it can be both positive and negative.
As a business, individual or company, you want word of mouth to be positive, but the reality is through new social media platforms and exchanges, consumers have more ways to amplify their experiences– the good, the bad and the ugly.
Take, for example, my recent restaurant going experiences over the weekend. Not one, but two restaurants (that shall remain nameless for the time being) slipped in extra entrees on our bill, hoping we would not check. And we almost didn’t.
In the first instance, since we were taking a family member out for their 65th birthday, we didn’t want to cause a scene and just ate it. Annoying.
In the second and far more annoying instance, a restaurant, where my husband and I are considered “regulars”, slipped in an extra entree, the entree we usually order when we’re there but didn’t this time. Was this a random error? No, they figured since we usually get the same thing every time, they’d try to sneak it in. When we called the waitress over, body language had “oops we’ve been caught” written all over it. We won’t be going there again.
My point with the above, is as an irritated, frustrated, and somewhat direct consumer, my first inclination was to go wherever possible online to warn people not to go to these two restaurants. My Facebook and Twitter updates mentioned this annoyance, and look, here I am blogging about it. I’ve decided to not name the restaurants, but if I truly wanted to cause some damage and give these two places the consumer F%&* YOU, I’d be a little more specific.
Consumers like tell others how much they like or dislike products, services and experiences. eMarketer reports that 65 million adults in the U.S. are talking about products and services and 27 million of them are doing it online via forums, blogs, consumer review sites, social media sites etc. That trend is only going to increase.
Sure, businesses should try to do things right in the first place to garner positive reviews, but they shouldn’t be afraid of the bad ones. It’s possible many of them can turn this around to be a positive by connecting with their target audience, hearing feedback, and understanding their audience’s perception.
So I’m not sure if Pace in Laurel Canyon or Taste on Melrose will do anything about my experiences to make it better, but if they were smart, they’d not only keep in mind that consumers like to blab about shifty practices, but they should pay attention to what’s being said.
Oops! I slipped the names of the restaurants. Kind of like how they slipped in those extra entrees.








It seems in tough times, many businesses try anything to get an extra buck out of the consumer. In my opinion, this is how the economy turned for the worst, greed.
I have had the same experience in several establishments over the past couple of months, at places where I frequent often. I have read the reviews of the places you slipped in and it seems like they have done this before to others..
The saying, Buyer Beware and Trust No One surely will be the phrases defining this time we are in. Very sad.
Both now officially knocked out of my rotation. Thanks for the tip…and it’s so, so true.
Dear Mrs Dicker,
I want to sincerely apologize for the unpleasant incident you had at our restaurant on Saturday March 7th. Your comments were most troubling but I want to unequivocally thank you for bringing this to my attention.
It is our highest priority to provide our guests with an exceptional dining experience and in this instance we certainly failed to do this. After researching this incident I can assure you the overcharge was human error of an item getting added to your ticket as opposed to the table who actually ordered the item. What you experienced is totally unacceptable and we have already taken steps to ensure that this does not happen in our restaurant again.
While I cannot change the past, I would like to invite you back as my personal guest so that we can show you that we really can do a much better job than what you experienced. We strive to take care of our guests, especially ones as loyal as you and your husband have been. Please come back to enjoy a complimentary meal for two, all food and beverages included.
Once again, please accept our sincere apology for this unfortunate incident and thank you for letting us know about it.
Best regards,
Abbie Nienkamp
Taste On Melrose
West Hollywood, CA
Taste At The Palisades
Pacific Palisades, CA
Pizzetta
Kauai, HI
818.720.0689 cell
323.852.4888 fax
Lori, I’m still siding with your intuition. But Abbie: bravo for *a* response, and a very nice one at that. Social media at work.
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Abbie-
Thank you so much for responding to my blog post here. It’s great to know that people do pay attention to customers and try to make things right. Looking forward to my next visit to Taste (which has long been one of my favorite LA restaurants).
Thanks!
Lori
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